Dating and Relationship Advice from the team at Executive Matchmakers

Explaining the Chemistry of Lust


When we talk about love and lust, we're diving into the feelings that make human connections so complicated. It's not just about the excitement and nervousness; there's a whole emotional landscape at play. And that’s not to mention the explosion of chemical reactions happening all around your brain and body, making you feel a million things all at once.

Lust and love might seem like similar experiences on the surface. Truthfully, they aren’t all that different from a chemistry standpoint. They both cause faster heartbeats and sweaty palms, and they both make your brain light up like a Christmas tree. If we look deeper, however, we can see they have some key differences.

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What Does Vulnerability Look Like in New Relationships?


Vulnerability is the foundation upon which healthy and long-lasting relationships are built. It involves being open and honest with your partner about your thoughts, feelings, and experiences, even when doing so is uncomfortable or challenging. When seeing someone new, vulnerability is especially important because it allows you to establish trust and create a deeper connection with your partner.

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What You Should Know About Dating a Narcissist


Your ideal relationship is one where you’re cherished and loved for exactly who you are. You want a partner who will laugh with you, not at you. You want to fall deeply in love with someone who celebrates your success and will care for you in hard times. You’re looking for real love, but I’m very sorry to say, you won’t find any of this in your relationship with a narcissist. So, how do you date a narcissist? The simple answer is, you don’t.

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Are you Dating or Interviewing?


When you’re a busy professional, carving out time for a date is a challenge. Nobody wants to feel like they’ve wasted their time, but this is even more important when you’ve got to be awake at 5am tomorrow morning. It’s tempting, then, to turn a first date into an interview of sorts.

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2022 Gift Guide: Top 35 Romantic Gifts


It’s that time of year again. That’s right–‘tis the season of gift giving. Whether you’re planning for the holidays or just want to show how much you care, giving a gift is a great way to express your love to your special someone. That being said, picking the right gift is easier said than done. To make the process a little simpler, we've come up with a list of 35 romantic gifts that are sure to impress. From top-of-the-line tech to sexy silk robes, here’s our 2022 list of the best gifts for your partner.

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The New Dating Dynamic and the Modern, Lonely Man


When it comes to dating, are modern men missing the mark? According to a recent Psychology Today article, it seems so. To get an executive perspective on this topic, I sat down with our Vice President Genevieve Gresset, who was interviewed just this week by BBC Radio for her expert take on the trending article. Here's what she has to say about the cultural shift executive men are facing in the modern dating world.

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Top 10 Exotic Hotels for a Romantic Summer Getaway


If one thing is certain in the world, it’s that summer is for vacation. This summer, what better way to spoil your special someone than by splurging on an exotic, luxury getaway. Whether you and your partner are looking for a thrilling adventure, relaxing retreat, or some Instagram-worthy views, we’ve got you covered.

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Where Johnny Depp and Amber Heard went wrong–through the eyes of a certified matchmaker


There are two kinds of relationships; lust-driven and emotion-driven. Early on in a relationship, people often make the mistake that a simple chemical reaction between each other can be the basis for a romantic, meaningful, life-long companionate relationship. Lust-driven relationships usually fail as a result of clashing core values and one trying to change the other. Lacking the pillars of a successful relationship, basic needs are not met. They are the circle inside of a square.

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15 Signs that Prove He is the One


Even as a child, I imagined the day that some handsome prince charming would go down on his knee and ask me that magical question. It’s normal, I think, for girls to fantasize about these things. As soon as we’re taught to read, walk, and talk, we’re bombarded with movies, shows, and books that all center around one thing—finding The One. The fact that one day I’d meet my own special someone was as real to me as the clouds in the sky. It would happen. And we would live happily ever after. As I’ve grown up, I’ve realized that love isn’t as easy as a Disney movie. The road to real, lasting love can be filled with heartbreak, pain, and doubt. Sometimes it takes a failed relationship (or two, or more) to teach you how to spot the right one when he comes along.

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Spring Cleaning: How to Freshen Up Your Dating Checklist


Jessica’s friends can’t understand why she’s still single. They say that, with her good looks and charm, she could get any guy she wanted. To some degree, they’re right. For her, finding a date has never been the problem. Most men that she meets are instantly enamored with her and eager to start a relationship.
For Jessica, however, the feelings are rarely mutual. She has high standards for her relationships and wants a man who lives up to her ideals. She refuses to settle for a partner who doesn’t cross off every mark on her dating checklist.
After interacting with a guy for a few minutes, Jessica usually decides he’s not worth seeing again. Despite her efforts, she always finds herself back to square one.

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